Feeling a little bit excited and nervous. H is coming over today to spend the day with me and the kids and spending the night. This is the first night he is staying over since we separated in early September. He emailed me this morning to ask what we are going to do and if we wanted to make a nice dinner after the kids were in bed.
He is really starting to come out of his shell lately, reaching out to me and showing more affection. Even him mentioning dating and that sort of thing is totally new for us lately. I feel these are all positive things. For now I am going to let him do the 'pursuing', per advice of my DB coach. I must say, I like being pursued!
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.