Thanks Say & AS,

I continue to take you advice & comments on board fully & will bear them in mind tonight.

She does seem to want to go `all in' very quickly & wants to move forward. We dont have Retrouvaille in UK to my knowledge but I have digested a lot of `relationship' type books in the last 4 months & hopefully get to use some of that knowledge.

I will drop the `in love' stuff, just me trying to be really happy that she is sure about this. I have told her to wait a month, six months,a year, whatever, to ensure her decision is final & she is committed to us. I would rather she stay with OM until she is absolutely sure if necessary. And yes, OM must be totally gone & no looking back, Ive already stated this. She asked him for `space' on Monday, where have I heard that before lol! She did tell me he is 10 yrs younger than me, just said Im not interested in him.

Thanks Again All


Me 50
W 46
Stepson 16
Together 6yr, Married 3yr
Known each other 20yr
ILYBNILWY Jul 13
Found out about affair Jul 13
Left Marital home Jul 13