There are a million reasons why I'll give this advice, but the #1 reason is that YOU can choose how to act but you can't choose what people will say behind your back. That being said...
Choose the high road. Be gracious. Say only nice things about people. That way, when you go home, you KNOW for a fact that nobody can misinterpret what you say.
Imagine yourself as Grace Kelly on the red carpet. She never dissed her producers or fellow actors.
And for God's sake, don't indulge in conversations about your XH or your divorce. Act AS IF that is no longer part of your life. You were a whole person before you met him, and you're still a whole person now.
Good luck--
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
