Yes preggo, you can get through this. Check in your community for a Postpartum depression support group, having the support of others going through similar things can be so helpful for you.

Always take what you read on here with a grain of salt, none of us are experts and sometimes we try to move above our paygrade. There are situations, especially those involving addictions or mental illness, in which a spouse could become the Most Perfect Spouse and not change anything in the marriage.

That doesn't mean working on yourself isn't a good thing but you're about to go through another major life change, take one thing at a time.

I'll be sending you lots of positive birth vibes.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss