He's thinking that I should know what he wants without him having to tell me.
Yes! This is my H as well. Its like he believes being truly "in love" should make you a mind reader....able to know exactly what your spouse wants/needs. He frustrates him self trying to "figure me out" instead of believing what I say....and then he doesn't express his own needs but builds resentment when they aren't met...and I am completely clueless that he's keeping tabs on things I dont do that I dont even know are expected of me.
And yes having no kids is a big factor. Sometimes I think children can be the "glue" in many situations to help w/ holding things together or helping the WAS to rethink....sometimes it seems they aren't a factor at all.
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope
