It's still football season-when's my bye week?

[reachingHigher]

You're the rock of sanity and stability for your boys right now. You're doing great in a horrible situation. The poor kids sound so devastated already. I hope and pray W realizes what she's doing to them 

Hi Mm! You're doing great! I'm glad W is still able to talk with you about the sons even if she is in this fog.

I remember last Christmas when I was so desparate and turned to a long-time mutual guy friend that loves both me and H. We talked for an hour on the phone and he kept reiterating "your H is in a fog" and telling me to be strong and that when H comes out of the fog that I would be there bright and shining like the light to draw him home.

And he was right...my H DID come out of the fog! And I WAS there!

And this man told me all the DB concepts without having been to DB 101 !! Look and smell good, don't worry about what he is doing or has done, be patient, know that if you come out of this wih a R like none other (even if it takes years) it'll be worth it.

This is a man that looked for love for years in the wrong places and knows how valuable a true loving R can be!

So...idk if it helps you at all this morning. You're going through he!! For the one you love, for your boys, for yourself, for your faith ... without a guarantee of expected reconciliation. I can tell you I applaud you for staying the course and I really understand how hard it is.

Thinking of you today, Mm,
rH