Quick Updat,

WAW wants to meet me again tonight. I suggested neutral territory which she agreed to.

Last 2 days, 6 calls from her, 3 of which an hour long, maybe the fog has actually lifted.

I refuse to rush into this & will continue with:

She has a lot of thinking to do, how much more?
Loving me is not enough, she has to want to be `in-love' with me again
I will not go back for the sake of Step-son or her money issues
I will not entertain a relationship while OM is on the scene in any way.

Lets see what happens but it all seems to be coming to a head. She admitted her best friend told her everything she wanted to hear when she started affair.....now best friend is telling her to `follow her heart'!

Interesting times


Me 50
W 46
Stepson 16
Together 6yr, Married 3yr
Known each other 20yr
ILYBNILWY Jul 13
Found out about affair Jul 13
Left Marital home Jul 13