Who is this woman & what has she done with my wife

[willbwell]

this whole thing is making my head swim!...questioning what would I do. go or not go? Part of this crazy making is we constantly go back and forth with our decisions.
my D has started too. I recently sent h an email about finances/kids- just business. His response was that my tone had changed. Really?
I gave the pathetic speech-h, this is painful for me. said to h you want the D and I am just supposed to go along?
kicking myself for sharing the pain part. h knows that.

once, I had a 'lunch date' with h. we had two different expectations going in. It didn't turn out so well.

At this point I have to be business. I have been friendly and amicable.

Whether you decide to go or not. Think hard about your expectations. Because you guys have kids , there will always be opportunities for conversations.
I am where you are. I know the craziness