Thanks F, never thought I would hit this place. Just shows that time does help. But really it was the acceptance of no more guilt that seemed to have done it. To simply feel proud that I haven't forced any issues with regards to separating, splitting of assets, arguing/fighting or if it happens divorce. I have tried many different ways to help the marriage, some good, some bad, I did my best to what I knew. I haven't given up on the W, just accepted it is now her journey, simple as that. I have my own journey now.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.