WH, just reading your thread. it is a sad situation the fallout on our kids. I think the same of my h too. he says he's concerned about the kids, but he is concerned about himself first. a big baby. sure I have compassion for him. it must be miserable to be him right now. I too am trying to work thru. to get to the other side with dignity and my self esteem intact.
M48 H50 M21 T26 S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old PA confirmed 7/2012 H separates 9/2012 H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY OW still in picture. h filed 10/13