WH, just reading your thread. it is a sad situation the fallout on our kids. I think the same of my h too. he says he's concerned about the kids, but he is concerned about himself first. a big baby. sure I have compassion for him. it must be miserable to be him right now.
I too am trying to work thru. to get to the other side with dignity and my self esteem intact.


M48 H50
M21 T26
S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old
PA confirmed 7/2012
H separates 9/2012
H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY
OW still in picture. h filed 10/13