TTD180, yes talking about the money puzzles me also (not as much as it would have weeks ago). I think she is feeling like she has to rush now, especially since I am moving away in 7 weeks. I won't be doing anything unless it is through the solicitor. I am not dealing with any solicitor on my behalf, until papers have to be signed. You never know, it could be a ploy to break n/c. Simply doesn't affect me either way anymore.
F, she could be short in the finances. Though I doubt it. She hasn't had to pay any bills for the last year, is sharing accommodation with the friend, and hasn't to my knowledge gone on a big holiday. Not to mention if she did her tax (didn't do it at the same time as me), she would be getting about $16k back. And yes, she will get about $23k from the split of assets. Also simply didn't feel I needed to wait the 48hours (did think what you would say) as I didn't need to control any of my emotions. Also the email came from her work, so she may not see it until Monday anyway. But I do accept, that the 48 hour reply should be consistent, rather than going by emotions.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
