you MIGHT be able to save it and you ALSO have to stand up for yourself.
Those are not two opposing paths.
Thing is, I think both those paths are followed by you standing up for yourself.
IF IF IF there is a chance she'll eventually, in time, begin to respect/love you again and let it resurface
it will be by you NOT enabling her to continue being unfair.
She's using double standards. It's obvious. Stop letting her do that to you. Period.
You AND YOUR SON deserve fairness. Enough said.
I think you'll get him more, which is THE priority but that also shows you are a man with a backbone who is NOT so terrified of conflict that he allows his EX wife to mistreat him and then instaed of saying how you really feel, you let her do what she wants
only to resent her out here on this board.
OWN Your irritation at her double standards and at yourself for allowing it.
Then stop allowing it. IF there is a chance for her to see you as a man she can admire
it will not be by you doing the same thing over and over, saying yes and yes and not making time with your son a priority.
BTW, staying home with your son when he's sick, was the right thing to do.
Good job.
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