Acceptance...

[Live4myDay]

Need Advise: So my SIL is coming into town and wants to meet us for dinner. She's been communicating thru D. She's actually the one SIL I like out of 4 of them.

I haven't spoken to her since the Christmas we were separated. Told me she just wants us to be happy. Everyone deserves to be happy. I just wanted to rip her head off after her brainwashing from her brother, my X!

I did tell her about my thoughts that there was OW. But noooo not there little brother. I told her he was a coward for leaving marriage after D return home from hospital.

Anyway, back to the present. I hate when they communicate through D only. Makes me feel like I'm only her caretaker. She is in town for a wedding. I've always liked her and got along. But now since the D and not communicating with inlaws im all nervous and uncomfortable.

I know I'll be fine and have spent the weekend with one other SIL this past summer and things were only surface conversations. I guess it's just the judgement and scrutinizing of his family. She's said crap about me during the D. I know the sisters will want to know the scoop.

Of course I'll look my best and be my most happiest like this is the best thing that ever happened to me. Which is what they told me from the beginning...argh!! I hate that!! I don't want to come across as missing my X and I want her to get the feeling I've moved on and 180 my life!

Let it spread like wildfire since I have absolutely no contact with X. Any advice on how I should be handling this situation since I'm sure it will be talked about to my X...?