I'm thinking about you and hoping that your dad's surgery goes well today. Post an update for us when you can.
You should go with what you know that won't set you back. It takes a long time for us to get to where we're not obsessing and constantly thinking about the poor fools. Whatever you do, make certain that you think of your own well being first.
As for whether he's playing you, Idk. This could be his way of reaching out to you in the only way he knows how to right now. Does your friend understand mlc behavior?
If he truly is trying to reconnect, he will contact you again. Don't worry about not responding once or twice. In a normal relationship with a clear thinking friend it would seem rude not to respond but with a mlcer, in the big picture, it doesn't matter as much. Does he have any contact with friends that you had in common? Is it possible that he knows about your dad's surgeries? He would understand that you're busy with other things if he does know.
Take care my night hawk friend. Wishing the best for you.
Me:57H:62 M:34T:35 2S,2D (grown nlah) BD:09/2012 visits M ow EA/PA?:10/2012 H moves out 06/2013
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama
