Regarding your comment on my W working, I perceived it as quite rude.
It wasn't meant to be rude, just seeking out the facts. You said she didn't work, I was investigating that. Many people say their W doesn't work even when the W is the fulltime at home parent. I was guessing she did work, just not for a paycheck.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss