I hate that S feels he has to interfere. There are going to be issues with their relationship down the road. Same goes for D. But I can't control that. It makes me mad but I can't do anything about it.
Watching H while we were "talking". He is just pathetic. Absolutely sad. He's really losing it. He's cracking. And there's nothing I can do but let him crack. We were discussing why I want D to be in counseling and he explained why he was hesitant to put her in. He said my fear is that she will feel like an outcast. Like she is different and weird and that she isn't normal. I watched him and realized that is how HE felt going through counseling as a kid. He was projecting. And I felt genuinely bad for him. Not sorry for him but sad that he would have to feel that way as a child. What a horrible upbringing he must have had.
I am wondering if H has signed this agreement why I wouldn't have heard anything from my attorney or the GAL? I emailed both today and neither one has gotten back to me yet. I hope he's not up to something and that he is on the up and up. I am not going to hold my breath with this.
Keeping my fingers crossed.
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"