We are just nowhere near an agreement as to a fair settlement and she has made statements relevant to the settlement that are so outrageous that I find it difficult to believe they were made in good faith. Others I know she knows are patently false, like how I refuse to meet/speak with her when I have texts proving she cancels every time. She got her financial statement to my lawyer and me yesterday and then got upset that we did not have a response ready.
I have never been involved in a divorce so you can ignore everything I'm about to say... Here goes. Fight for what is important. Let go of what is not. Ex. the computer. New ones run at $500 and they better than you're 3yo one. Give it to her. This is only an example but I hope you understand what I mean. When she's fighting tooth and nail for something ask yourself, "How important it is?" Will it draw you closer to serenity or cause you to get more and more sucked into her tornado.
I have read the law in my state and I believe my offer is fair and reflects that, I believe you. Heck, I bet a lot of people on this sight believe you. but she is wanting much more than she is entitled to and she is upset that I am not rolling over for her and giving her things she is not entitled to.How is this affecting you? She can fight about it all she wants. You continue to repeat your boundaries. She is blaming me for the choices SHE made. To her, I'm still the one who is responsible for all the bad things in her life. I think she blames me for her current financial state and maybe even her illness.You know this isn't true. Detach Detach Detach
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017
