Oi. Your son is getting involved too. Your kids see it and so should you - it's not you. I think you know that, but your H is feeling that pressure and is cracking. You'll see more of that controlling until it's out of sight.
And you thought you were the only one feeling the pressure, right? Not hardly. The whole family is feeling, but your H the most if you can imagine.
As for it really being signed? I'd believe it when you confirm it. But yes, it can happen just like that. Hopefully it did so you can move away from that scene and remove that element from the equation.
Hang in there though. The emotional vomitting isn't over. Although it just might be that you're seeing the next step fall into place.
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."