Hey Lefty. I am sorry the legal stuff suckks. No way around it, though, unfortunately.

I know it feels likes she is the most resolute. Trust me, she isnt.

Doesnt matter who checked out first, who did what. What matters is who you are now.

As long as you are being fair, thats what matters. As long as you are acting with dignity, thats what matters.

Whatever the reasons are that she is doing what she is doing, does not.

Hang in there.