In all honesty TTD180, I think my W has simply said nothing to anyone, certainly not making me the bad guy. But then again, I could be so wrong. I certainly agree that moving away from the mutual friends and family is the way to go, and has been done.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.