2old, I don't want to go on but you've given this speech now a few times and keep going over and over the same thing! It's depressing! Especially to me as it makes me think of my sitch. My H took me and my son to the railway station in the morning, gave me a proper kiss goodbye then drove off. His excuse for not coming with us was he had a removal job on, little did I know he meant himself! Whilst we were at the city, we went to a sealife centre and I even bought my H a souvenir. In town I also bought H a couple of books. I felt bad that he wasn't with us. I texted him on the way home on the train, expecting him to pick us up at the other end, instead I got a text back saying "I'm not coming home". So 2old, it happens to a lot of us. Even though he's been round quite often, I still don't really know why he left. Do I wallow in self pity every day trying to figure this out? NO! Do I keep posting this on my thread about H leaving? NO! Do I keep reminding people how long it's been now since he's left? NO! Do I have a PMA? YES! Do I GAL? YES! Do I try and keep my thread positive and upbeat? Yes but occasionally I do have a bad day where I have to get advice on one thing or another. Let's see this new positive, upbeat 2old that you say you are :)No more downbeat, negative posts please No more journalling as you call it. I am going through a rough time at the mo and I need more PMA and less negative attitudes, I get enough negative with my H thank you very much
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
No more journalling as you call it. I am going through a rough time at the mo and I need more PMA and less negative attitudes, I get enough negative with my H thank you very much 
