We are just nowhere near an agreement as to a fair settlement and she has made statements relevant to the settlement that are so outrageous that I find it difficult to believe they were made in good faith. Others I know she knows are patently false, like how I refuse to meet/speak with her when I have texts proving she cancels every time. She got her financial statement to my lawyer and me yesterday and then got upset that we did not have a response ready.
I have read the law in my state and I believe my offer is fair and reflects that, but she is wanting much more than she is entitled to and she is upset that I am not rolling over for her and giving her things she is not entitled to. She is blaming me for the choices SHE made. To her, I'm still the one who is responsible for all the bad things in her life. I think she blames me for her current financial state and maybe even her illness.