hwa, I felt the same as you did. Why doesn't someone ask h what the heck is he doing? his friends(our friends) don't want to get in his business. h talks to no one except ow. Sad to me.
my h too wants to be done and over with so he can move "forward" doing the finances.. h can spend some money on himself! He has a closet full of clothes from high end retail. I shop discount. It is the difference in how we were brought up. I am afraid the finances are going to make this amicable D get ugly.
Your H sounds a lot like my H, why don't you come over to my thread and you'll see the similarities. We may even make your H an honorary triplet or is that quadruplet now, lol.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
