That's cool GALbaby So you create a separate account with your DB nickname? I never thought of that one
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
hwa, I felt the same as you did. Why doesn't someone ask h what the heck is he doing? his friends(our friends) don't want to get in his business. h talks to no one except ow. Sad to me.
my h too wants to be done and over with so he can move "forward" doing the finances.. h can spend some money on himself! He has a closet full of clothes from high end retail. I shop discount. It is the difference in how we were brought up. I am afraid the finances are going to make this amicable D get ugly.
M48 H50 M21 T26 S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old PA confirmed 7/2012 H separates 9/2012 H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY OW still in picture. h filed 10/13
Thanks willbwell, it always annoyed me and made me wonder, why no worry queried the W over all this. Considering she made the steps to do this. It isn't like the people are simply quiet, because they have had a go at me. Just didn't have a go at the W, and I know because they told me.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
hwa, I felt the same as you did. Why doesn't someone ask h what the heck is he doing? his friends(our friends) don't want to get in his business. h talks to no one except ow. Sad to me.
my h too wants to be done and over with so he can move "forward" doing the finances.. h can spend some money on himself! He has a closet full of clothes from high end retail. I shop discount. It is the difference in how we were brought up. I am afraid the finances are going to make this amicable D get ugly.
Your H sounds a lot like my H, why don't you come over to my thread and you'll see the similarities. We may even make your H an honorary triplet or is that quadruplet now, lol.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Thanks willbwell, it always annoyed me and made me wonder, why no worry queried the W over all this. Considering she made the steps to do this. It isn't like the people are simply quiet, because they have had a go at me. Just didn't have a go at the W, and I know because they told me.
Looks like your W been making out to people that you're the bad guy in this, just like my H is doing with me! I suppose we need to accept this and move away from mutual friends and family that believe the WAS over the LBS.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
In all honesty TTD180, I think my W has simply said nothing to anyone, certainly not making me the bad guy. But then again, I could be so wrong. I certainly agree that moving away from the mutual friends and family is the way to go, and has been done.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
HWA, a "donk" came from one of the crocodile dundee movies....the first one i believe....he was a big guy at one of those bars in the outback somewhere...smashed a mug of beer into his head and didnt blink...lol
The W replied back to my email, simply saying she is sorry it has come to this too.
She then wanted to know when all the legal bank paperwork will be ready etc. I replied back that she stills needs to get the "binding financial agreement" done by her solicitor before any paperwork can be changed (names) or any payout fee given to her. She even wants to give me her bank details now for me to transfer the money. Mmmmm sounds like she is in a bit of a rush.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
So you create a separate account with your DB nickname? I never thought of that one