I'll be looking forward to the vacation update.

I LOVED the story you shared on my thread. Hilarious! You will always be Forever Young, I think!

About IC's. I told you the one I see now and also use for MC was also telling me it was "over" last fall; yet, she is a very good MC, and quite good as IC, too.

The first IC I saw was awful. I shared on here how bad he was, and I knew it the first session. I actually felt he was interested in me vicariously, sort of.

So...I like you're going to try another session with the one you just saw, that you may see if she works for you.

My current IC is not supportive of this forum, yet, I do like her personally, and she has helped me with a lot of issues. She is also on second M with blended family. Maybe a lot of them go into IC b/c they have their own issues.

I felt it was most important to me to be with someone I really liked, and felt comfortable opening up with. And that was more important to me than if her philosophy was the same. She also has suggested good activities and books.

I know you will decide what is best for you, and hopefully for you and W eventually.


Me54/H47
'08 H is "done"
March '12 H moved out
Brink of D, December '12
2014 totally reconciled!
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"I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal."
Jim Conway