FY, I would go for a second session and after that one, you should know whether she is the "one" for you. I don't particularly care for the feeling you got from her vibes about fighting a losing battle.
We use to have conversations on here many years ago about IC's and the words that come to my mind when searching for an IC is "solution based".
Give her one more chance and if your gut instinct is still telling that she thinks you are fighting a losing battle, I would drop her.
Just my two cents.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
