Thanks willbwell, it always annoyed me and made me wonder, why no worry queried the W over all this. Considering she made the steps to do this. It isn't like the people are simply quiet, because they have had a go at me. Just didn't have a go at the W, and I know because they told me.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.