Her relationship with the OW is mostly emotional and I would say there was minimal physical contact. From what I understand and tend to believe it was/is hugging and kissing and the kissing has (she says) stopped and lasted about a month back in March.
Try not to expend too much energy figuring out how far it's gone, because it doesn't matter. An EA is just as damaging as a PA.
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We had an exceptionally good sex life together until all of this happend.
As men we think sex = fulfillment, but it's not the same for women. We can gripe and complain and show no love to our W all day and then go into the bedroom and turn it off long enough to have "good" sex, but all that other stuff we were doing ruins it for women. Which explains this:
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The last time we did make love she stated (later on) that she "felt nothing" (emotionally)
Unfortunately after BD it's no longer appropriate to show all the other love that our W really wanted and needed because they don't want it anymore. But it's something to keep in mind for that time they (hopefully) start to change their mind.
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I certainly had other issues..but
Boy I hate it when people stick "but" after a comment like that, because "but" negates everything that comes before it. Just own your mistakes in the M and don't ever put "but" after it.
