What is the objective in moving to the master bedroom?
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So the objective at that time was to be aggressive enough to claim your bed while your W was occupying that room.
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Did you explain to your DB Coach that the W was no longer in the master bedroom?
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sandi2 - the coach twice said "since I am a divorce busting coach" or something similar. The thought behind the strategy seemed to be to do a 180 by taking the lead on this, to say sorry and that she has treated me lousily in so many words, and to encourage W and I to heal back together. I've also read here on DB that the shock of the real often causes a WAS to reconsider. I find it risky to say "sure, I'll sign the divorce papers" and also to put the house on the market earlier than W had planned, especially given her clearly stated intentions.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
