"weary look around the eyes will appear, the sparkle in the eyes disappears and you will see that deer in the headlight look. No, they aren't having a jolly time."

I see this weary look in my H now. Very nice description job. I love the experience factor you all have.

Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.