People, please!! Remember that there are two sides to every story. DB'ing is NOT about letting people come on here and trash their spouse and we just pat their back and tell them their spouse is a worthless piece of garbage that they need to walk away from!! We need to help Preggo work on HERSELF. We also need to help her see that her spouse, however good or bad a spouse he is, has his own view of the sitch and it is radically different from hers. DB'ing is about setting aside our own biases and trying to understand what our spouse sees in our sitch, and fixing what we can about ourselves if the complaints are valid.
Let me ask you all this- how would you like it if everyone's opinion of you was based solely on your WAS's wild emotional commentary on you? We shouldn't allow ourselves to fall into the same trap, a LBS can be just as one-sided in their description of their spouse as a WAS can. Let's stop the spouse-bashing and start offering Preggo some constructive feedback.
