Hoping to still move forward, huge setback

[cbtdad]

Thank you so much LTH!!
I needed that. What a great post and it really made me look at it from a different point of view. I sometimes forget this is a marathon not a sprint and its not going to be the way I want it overnight. That's what our MC was having us focus on, the fact how we handled it the next day. That was the biggest fight we had ever had in 7 years. And we were able to talk it out calmly the next day.
One of the things she brought up in MC Tuesday was that she has put a lot of faith in me moving forward. Putting faith in me that I am better man and that I will treat her like a husband should. Then she asked me to put that same faith in her. Put that faith in her that it is done and will never happen again.
LTH, you really helped me realize that OM is part of this marriage only because I am allowing. Those thoughts must and will stop.
Thanks again!