The Big Chill

[Not Quitting]

No suggestions that sound like fixing. Whether he's talking about work or your M, it will come across wrong even if you only intend it to be helpful. I'm sure you'd love to suggest that he looks for another position that he might enjoy more, but you definitely can't do that.

And I'm going to digress - once again MLC trips (or drips as we've come to call them LOL) - my H also has issues with his work, and I believe a lot of those feelings have been transferred into our R, either intentionally or unintentionally.