How can I respond to H when he says 'things will never change'.

This is not in regards to our M, but mostly when he talks about work. This is his constant theme, and I'm SURE he thinks this of our M, but anyhoo, I digress. I would like to say something supportive, but often this comment makes me want to suggest fixing something.

Thoughts?

Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

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