But after over 24 hours of labor and then a c section, my H calls me in the hospital as he was trying to pay the mortgage ( I normally took care of the bills). And due to sleep deprivation and worrying about my newborn I couldn't remember the online password. He yelled at me, my dad was there in the house with him overheard him and yelled at him.
It's called narccissm. Can't empathize with anything that doesn't directly involve him.Can't see outside of the narrow tunnel that is their world.
Not to hijack, but… Thanks for this post. I can see narccissm in myself, at least that was how I was at times… How discussing. It is so helpful to see this posted about others, so I can read it and allow myself to look as an outsider and see that that is me, it is hard to see otherwise, if that makes sense.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
