I Believe it Cause I Feel It

[Whiterose]

My L sent me a lettre that H's L sent

I need to cease involving the boys in litigation. That the boys have overheard me saying H is in mlc and that I'm involving the boys in choosing items to take from the house". Basically, got my head slapped

I was furious! I asked S18 if he ever mentioned mlc to his dad, or any other in laws, and he swears he never did. As for the furniture, like I've mentioned in earlier posts, I did a lot of research and talked to some educators/counsellors and they thought it was a good idea as it allows the boys "a voice" in this. It also opens up dialogue in that they can talk about their feelings and I can assure them it'll be ok. I had to explain this to my L. I had to fell her that teenage boys eavesdrop. I'm on a different floor or room, with doors closed.....what do they want from me? H has no one, ever, it's so easy for him to not have to worry about kids listening in!!

H abandons these kids and then has the nerve to write a letter saying I'm using the kids in litigation?? Yet, I message him to tell him about the furniture and he calls S18 to respond (I did tell my L that) and I'm the bad parent?