When u say "he reached out to have 'the talk' the other day. Like he was testing me to see if I was 'still there'."... My h kinda did that the other day too... based on his comment "not even sure if you want that" (when mentioning how he had been thinking about getting back together).
Why do they wanna test? What are we supposed to do with that information? Are we supposed to let them know we want it or let them enquire more? let them investigate it further. Up until a few months ago, I was very transparent of what I wanted. Since gaining my self-respect recently and maintaining my emotions infront of him, he now felt comfortable to say this to me. And in return, I didn't give him a response of "what I wanted".
Just wondering what you are going to do or say about his test?
Thanks, Magic!
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
