He may never be who you need/want him to be, it seems he might never have been.

You can't look at an oak tree and expect it to be a maple.

What can you do for you?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss