I'm glad thee benign was positive NLW. It's something for sure. Keep your DBing on as AS wisely said. Who knows where exh is right now in his head. I read something today that reminds me of so many of us here :

Release the grasp on what you think you know and slip into the ease of not knowing.

Xxx

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home