Originally Posted By: NLW

Obviously didn't want to be seen by anyone who knew us all.


Watch the mind-reading!

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It was OK, like catching up with a family member - lots of 'have you seen this TV show, movie, You tube video?', etc.


Good! Stay away from deep convos!

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XH concurred and said, "We should do this every week. Are you up for it?"


Great! Don't have any expectations, just accept it as a nice baby-step. Hopefully he will follow through, but be prepared for him not to.

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Saints preserve us! What is going on?


He may be just starting to come out of the tunnel. MLC doesn't always last forever, but when they do finally start coming out of the tunnel it usually comes as a shock to the LBS. The alien monster suddenly shows signs of their old self and it's almost as bizarre to the LBS as when they changed into the alien to begin with. Just understand that it's not a liner process, if he is reaching the end of his journey he will likely be in and out of the tunnel a lot. Just stick with your DB'ing and do NOT pursue him! Let him drive the process.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57