Yup. Unhappy for years, doesn't feel love for you anymore, is turned off by this or that (ridiculous things that would not normally lead to a man being turned off....ever!), blah blah blah. It's the same song and dance. I was convinced my xh was having MLC, it may have been - who knows. All I know is that he has snapped out of it finally and we are back together. It's going to be a LONG road still but maybe someday we will get there.

My sitch now is in Surviving the big D titled 'working more on me'. Of course, it's all about what's happening now but I'm sure my posts are somewhere in the archives from the early days.


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!