hwa, I felt the same as you did. Why doesn't someone ask h what the heck is he doing? his friends(our friends) don't want to get in his business. h talks to no one except ow. Sad to me.

my h too wants to be done and over with so he can move "forward"
doing the finances.. h can spend some money on himself! He has a closet full of clothes from high end retail. I shop discount. It is the difference in how we were brought up. I am afraid the finances are going to make this amicable D get ugly.

M48 H50
M21 T26
S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old
PA confirmed 7/2012
H separates 9/2012
H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY
OW still in picture. h filed 10/13