Thank you PM, Bright and AS,
I will keep my ring on until it is signed. I want to show to my boys that I did not give up. that I did/do value commitment. It is what I will expect of them. ironically, h still has his on, although not sure why.

A choice to make. up to now, h has seen kids at his leisure.At most d spends 1 night at h's apt. from 5pm sat(dinner out, movie, bed) until 9am sun (breakfast out).
Perhaps it is time for d to stay fri 6pm until sun noon. D will not like it and quite honestly neither will I. But if this is to be the new normal...h has pretty much done what he wants when he wants and I do all the kid stuff. perhaps time to do something different


M48 H50
M21 T26
S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old
PA confirmed 7/2012
H separates 9/2012
H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY
OW still in picture. h filed 10/13