H came by and asked me if I'd like to have dinner with him at his house earlier tonight. I hesitated knowing that I should say no and take a rain check but he insisted in a way too convincing and polite manner so I agreed. I wanted to have my own car there so I followed him over. He lit candles, lit the fireplace and told me to relax while he made dinner. I don't sit in one place for very long when I'm home and it was no different there. I did my best to sit still but I failed miserably. LOL He set the table so that we were seated next to each other instead of the usual facing each other. We talked mostly about what was going at work as we ate. As we were finishing up he mentioned some things about the ow and her major financial issues. He didn't seem too happy about it but he defended her blaming her h for the problems. She's suppose to be back tomorrow.
All in all it was very pleasant other than the ow talk and the house vibes. He rarely cooks so that was something different. He was very relaxed and seemed pleased to be serving me instead of the other way around. He said it felt good to be doing something for me and how I've always taken care of him. He was very complimentary telling me how nice I looked and then asked what I had done today. He didn't believe me when I told him and assumed that I had gone out to lunch with someone and didn't want to admit it.
As I was leaving he said that it was nice to have me over again and that it had been awhile. He wants me to come over again when he lights the fire pit for the first time.
Oh, almost forgot. While I was waiting for him to finish cooking I took a walk outside to look at the garden and just happened to notice that the kayak that she rode off in was there. Not where the other 2 are. Almost like it was hidden. Must be a sore spot for one of them. Anyway, there are still 3 chances for another one way kayak ride.
Me:57H:62 M:34T:35 2S,2D (grown nlah) BD:09/2012 visits M ow EA/PA?:10/2012 H moves out 06/2013
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama