If someone comes and says, "I want to try, and maybe we can date, etc" but they won't dismiss divorce, is that fair/reasonable? W did say we could put in a 90-day stay which basically means the divorce does nothing for 3 months.
I'm trying to decide if I should stand for full commitment, or take what you get. Is it greedy to require full commitment?
In my opinion, I think it would be exciting to "date" again! You can divorce your old unworking marriage and start a fresh new relationship.
I'm sure she is just as scared as you are about the whole thing.
If it were me though, I'd give it a go with the dating and re-learning about each other.
Me: 31 H: 32 Married 10 years, together 11 No kids H moved out to an apt 8-3-13
Experience: That most brutal of teachers. But you learn, my God, do you learn. ~C.S. Lewis
