Since your H is one of those kitty kitten MLCers, I would suggest that you change things up a bit. When he talks nonsense about these OW's and such, I'd suggest that you start poking holes at them and hit him with "reality pill." Then sit back and observe. Time to show some steely backbone in your convos with H and hit him in the head now and then with comments that will crack his rose-colored glasses. If he objects or fusses around, just say that it is what a "friend would do".
Hi, what if you do that, which I have done and he agrees with you about the OP's saying that they are horrible, crabby people, that's why there is an attraction in the first place?
I know with my H he likes the harsh treatment. My H said, don't you think I know who EA is and your right, she's a maggot.
What do we do with our H's that hold on to that harsh treatment and call us soft? My H is a kitten too, by what I think you mean. But, his ea is a she-devil.
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!
