If someone comes and says, "I want to try, and maybe we can date, etc" but they won't dismiss divorce, is that fair/reasonable? W did say we could put in a 90-day stay which basically means the divorce does nothing for 3 months.
I'm trying to decide if I should stand for full commitment, or take what you get. Is it greedy to require full commitment?
Jon, if you would take a look around the Piecing forums, it is not all a linear process. That is probably where you get stuck. As Bond can probably attest here, there will be many, many fits and starts in the piecing process which is why I suggested that you guys go to a Gottman-based MC therapist trained in these techniques to ensure a better chance at a successful R.
