Venting is good and encouraged here. Ignoring what others are pointed out to you about you is not. Did your exw complained about that about you? You know not really caring how she felt or what she said? That's how you are coming through.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”