Hoping to still move forward, huge setback

[jp787]

I am on the fence about meeting OM, for me it wouldn't work, but that is me. It may be the best thing you could do, I am just stating what I feel

What I said about talking it out and letting her know how you feel, I wanted to add that you need to be open and honest, get it all out, but not to drag it out. Once you get it out, let it go and move past it and don't bring it up again, you know this, you have stated this

W and I had a hard night Monday, but made it through and are also stronger now, but it was a hard night...

What a process this is.