One more thing about OM. I dont hate the guy. I dont really have any ill feelings towards him. He didnt even realixe my W was married till a week after it got pysical.My W was lying to him about it, not really his fault. So the 3 months of texting before that as far as he knew she was single. After he found out she was married she informed him we were getting a divorce and currently separated. Sort of another lie to him. A she didnt actually tell me that she wanted a D till a week after it got physical. Anyways because of that its not like I want to just hit the guy because its not like he came in on a happily married woman and knew it. Our mutual guy friend told me that OM told him that he respects the fact W and I are back together now. Like I told MC, "Im so tired of OM being in our marriage" MC replied, "he is not in y'alls marriage. This is between you and W. And the quicker you get that the quicker it will get better"
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
